Emotional Tools. Gerri Scazzero is a brave woman. She is a pastors wife and one day she Quit. Feeling overwhelmed and realizing she was not doing the things God wanted her to do, she had enough. she write about it in The Emotionally Healthy Woman. She didn’t leave her husband and she is still the pastor’s wife. Together they have created this tool to help people be and do what God intends for them. I hope it helps you.